How To Win Why Litigation May Not Be The Best Choice
by Laurie Israel, Esq.
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Most of the work of a lawyer is to help a client achieve his or her goals in the
most sensible and effective way, and at the least cost financial and otherwise.
We attorneys are trained as problem-solvers. In interviewing clients, we try to
find out all facts which are relevant to a client's situation and which may lead
to a solution.
Most of the lawyers I deal with on a daily basis in my practice are not combative,
and, like me, are looking for a peaceful solution for our clients' problems. Many
times (but not always) this is possible to achieve.
We solve disputes peacefully by working collaboratively with the opposing counsel
to see if both our clients' needs can be adequately addressed at the same time.
This is actually achievable in many situations, perhaps with some minor compromising
on both clients' parts. This is unlike the "zero sum game" in which if one client
wins, the other client loses. Rather, clients trade off on their desires, much like
the division of tangible property between children upon their parents' deaths.
Negotiating in Good Faith
In getting to this sort of peaceful conclusion, the old-fashioned "hired gun" lawyering
which encompasses scorched-earth tactics, demands, rudeness, and unkindness will
not get you to a peaceful solution. Clients are able to be reasonable if guided
by their lawyers in a non-threatening negotiation founded on reasonableness, openness,
and good faith. Luckily, most lawyers realize this and practice law this way, although
the situation was quite different when I began to practice law.
The manner of articulating in communications between the attorney and the client
is very important. Blaming or speaking disparagingly about the other party usually
leads to no helpful benefit, even if your own client is hurting and the other party
is objectively at fault. It is important that the lawyer and the lawyer's client
listen to the other side with an open mind, and try not to prejudge. When you do
that, you find out many things that might lead to a solution, in addition to giving
the other side credence for their feelings and thoughts. Listening often gets the
negotiation "unstuck". Even if you cannot or decide not to give them what they want,
at least they know they've been heard.
There is also the question of karma in the practice of law. In negotiations and
in the course of business transactions, many good deeds do get rewarded. For instance,
giving something up in a real estate transaction at the Purchase and Sale Agreement
stage may lead towards the other party saying "yes" when a problem arises prior
to or at the closing, when you may need the other party's cooperation. In a divorce
negotiation, having the parties finish the divorce with a memory of good feelings
towards each other during the negotiations will improve the rest of their lives
? and their lives will be forever intertwined if they had children together.
So when does your client need to litigate?
Why Settling Is Often the Best Choice
Clients often believe wherever there's a wrong there's a right. Although this may
be technically correct in many instances, it does not make sense to pay $20,000
in attorney's fees and court costs to possibly win $5,000 in a case. It is often
far better to settle, even when you're right. This is a hard lesson for clients
to learn.
Cases must be evaluated to make sure that the damages (and liability) are such that
it makes sense to spend the attorney's fees. Litigation is extremely time-consuming
for the attorney, and fees can build up very quickly to very high amounts. All this
needs to be considered. Getting one-half a recovery in a settlement is often better
than a 50% chance of getting the entire recovery, because the attorney's fees will
have to be added on to the cost.
As a negotiating attorney, it is very important to know what the "litigation case
scenario" of your client's dispute is. It will be an important factor in the negotiation
process. If your case is "very strong," this will play into what the negotiated
settlement should be. It's also very important to let the other side know (if it
is true) that you will litigate the case if a reasonable settlement is not reached.
The other side needs to know you can and will "dig in your heels" if the situation
warrants. Saying this, and meaning it, often leads to a settlement if the other
side has been advised correctly.
So winning is not always winning. Sometimes winning is knowing when and under what
terms to compromise.
Copyright ©2006 Laurie Israel.
Laurie Israel is founder of Israel, Van Kooy & Days, LLC, a law firm located in
Brookline, Massachusetts. She combines a family law practice with estate planning,
tax, mediation and collaborative law. Laurie is currently on the board of directors
of the Massachusetts Council on Family Mediation and the Massachusetts Collaborative
Law Council. Her writings include articles on mediation to stay married (marital
mediation), collaborative practice, marriage, divorce, and pre- and post-nuptial
agreements. She is a frequent presenter at professional conferences.
Her websites are:
www.ivkdlaw.com, www.yourfamilymatterslawblog.com and www.MediationToStayMarried.com.
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